I’ve sometimes heard people claim that all the new technology and services now available, actually separate us from our family, friends and close contacts, more than before.
The thinking behind this idea is that prior to widespread use of phones and Internet, we would interact with our closest relations face-to-face. However, with all the ICT capabilities that now exist, we may prefer to communicate indirectly and/or at a distance, creating more separation.
I believe that the opposite is true.
As humans, we have an innate need for direct, social contact. This facilitates empathy, allowing us to see how others really feel so we can truly understand them and relate better, and vice versa. This basic human characteristic drives our need to maintain personal, face-to-face contact with our closest family, friends and confidants. This is partly why we have regular family dinners, visits with our grand parents or meet up regularly with our closest friends.
I also believe that modern communication capabilities – including e-mail, texting, IM, video-calls, conferencing, blogs, and social networking services - actually help us enhance relations with our inner circles, as well as with those further out. These tools give us more possibilities and choices for communicating with people in different ways, depending on the context. (more…)